Why Timing Matters
Planning a baby shower is such a joyful part of preparing for a new arrival — but figuring out when to have it can bring up a lot of questions. Should you wait until you’re further along? Is earlier better if guests are traveling? What if you’re not sure how you’ll feel in a few months?
The truth is, there’s no single “right” time to have a baby shower — and that’s okay. Every pregnancy is different, and every mom-to-be has her own comfort levels, schedule, and support system. The good news? With a little guidance and flexibility, you can choose a date that feels just right for you and your loved ones.
This timing guide is here to walk you through it all — from common baby shower weeks, to seasonal ideas, to what to consider if you’re planning a virtual event. Whether you’re early in your pregnancy or already counting down the days, we’ll help you feel confident, calm, and celebrated every step of the way.
How Far Along Should You Be?
Most baby showers are held when the mom-to-be is between 28 and 36 weeks pregnant. This timing works well for a few reasons — you’re usually far enough along to have that sweet baby bump showing, but still early enough to enjoy the celebration before things get too physically tiring.
That said, every pregnancy is different, and how you feel matters most. Some moms feel great well into the third trimester and are happy to wait until 35 or 36 weeks. Others may prefer to plan earlier, around 28 to 30 weeks, especially if they’re managing morning sickness, fatigue, or a busy schedule.
Showers before 28 weeks are less common, but not unheard of — particularly for moms expecting twins or navigating high-risk pregnancies where doctors may recommend resting more as the due date approaches. Similarly, having a shower after 36 weeks can still work beautifully if you’re feeling good and keeping things local.
The key is to think about what will feel most comfortable, joyful, and stress-free for you. Choosing a date around how you actually feel (not just what’s typical) is always the right move.
Factors That Influence Baby Shower Timing
While 28 to 36 weeks is a common window, there are a few real-life factors that can help you decide when your baby shower should be. It’s not just about the calendar — it’s about comfort, convenience, and making the day as meaningful (and manageable) as possible.
Mom’s Health & Energy Levels
Some moms feel energized and glowing during the third trimester, while others start to feel more tired or achy. If you’re navigating nausea, swelling, or other symptoms, earlier might be easier — and that’s perfectly okay.
Work Schedules or Maternity Leave
If you or your partner have demanding work schedules, planning a shower during a quieter month (or before maternity leave begins) might make things smoother. Don’t forget to factor in the host’s availability too!
Travel Plans for Guests
Will close friends or family need to fly in? Planning earlier gives guests time to make arrangements — and can avoid last-minute cancellations if baby decides to come early.
Multiples or High-Risk Pregnancies
If you’re expecting twins, triplets, or have special medical care, doctors often recommend having your shower earlier. Many twin moms aim for 24–28 weeks, just to be safe.
Every situation is unique — and your timing should reflect your needs.
Popular Timeframes (and Why They Work)
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to baby shower timing — but a few windows tend to work well for many moms-to-be. Here’s a closer look at the most popular options, and why they’re so loved.
32 to 34 Weeks: The Sweet Spot
This is the most common time for baby showers — and for good reason. Your bump is beautifully visible (hello, cute photos), and you’re often still feeling comfortable enough to enjoy the festivities. It also leaves a nice buffer before your due date, just in case baby arrives a bit early.
28 to 30 Weeks: Great for Early Planners
If you’re someone who loves to be ahead of schedule — or if your guests are traveling in — this slightly earlier window is a great fit. It gives you plenty of time to unpack gifts, write thank-you notes, and finish prepping your nursery without feeling rushed.
36+ Weeks: Still an Option!
While later showers are less common, they can work well for local, casual gatherings. Some moms choose this timing for a “sprinkle” or relaxed shower closer to home. Just be sure to keep plans flexible in case baby has a surprise timeline of their own.
No matter when you celebrate, what matters most is the love in the room.
When to Have a Baby Shower by Season
The time of year can play a big role in how — and when — you plan your baby shower. Weather, travel, and seasonal vibes can all shape your ideal date. Here’s how to think about each season:
Spring & Summer Showers
These warmer months are perfect for outdoor celebrations. Think garden parties, backyard brunches, or picnics in the park. Spring showers can feature florals, soft pastels, and fresh air, while summer offers longer days and bolder colors.
But keep in mind: summer travel and weddings can fill calendars fast. If your shower falls during peak vacation time, give guests plenty of notice and consider a shaded or indoor option if heat is a concern.
Fall Showers
Fall is cozy, colorful, and perfect for rustic or seasonal themes — think pumpkins, warm tones, cider bars, and comfy sweaters. It’s also a great time for indoor venues, especially if you’re avoiding summer heat or winter weather.
Winter Showers
Planning a shower in winter? Lean into the charm with twinkle lights, hot cocoa bars, and holiday sparkle. Indoor venues are key — but winter showers can feel especially intimate and magical.
Just be sure to watch out for major holidays and snowy travel delays. Choose a weekend when guests are more likely to be in town and roads are safer.
Virtual vs. In-Person Showers: Does Timing Change?
If you’re planning a virtual baby shower, your timing can be a bit more flexible — and that’s a big advantage. Since guests don’t need to travel, you have more freedom to choose a date that works best for you (and your energy level), even if it’s a bit earlier or later than the traditional window.
Many moms-to-be host virtual showers between 28 and 36 weeks, just like in-person ones. But because there’s no need for travel, setup, or physical venue space, some choose to schedule earlier — especially if they’re managing a high-risk pregnancy or feeling more tired as the weeks go on.
Another option is a hybrid shower, with a small in-person gathering and a virtual stream for faraway guests. This lets you enjoy the best of both worlds — celebration and connection — without the stress of a large event.
Whichever route you choose, make sure to test your tech ahead of time, include a host or helper to guide the flow, and give yourself grace. Whether it’s on a screen or in your living room, what really matters is being surrounded by love and support.
Tips for Picking the Perfect Date
Choosing your baby shower date doesn’t have to be stressful — especially with a few thoughtful steps to guide you. Here’s how to make the decision feel simple and supportive.
Start with the mom-to-be
Her comfort and calendar come first. Ask when she expects to feel her best, or if there are any health considerations or personal preferences to keep in mind. A cozy, low-stress date is always the goal.
Avoid holidays and peak travel times
Try to steer clear of major holidays, school breaks, or busy travel weekends. These can make scheduling trickier for guests — and increase travel or venue costs. Aim for a calm weekend that doesn’t compete with too many outside plans.
Give yourself time to plan
A good rule of thumb: start planning 6 to 8 weeks in advance. This gives you time to organize the details, create a guest list, and send out invitations with plenty of notice — especially if guests are traveling or shopping for gifts.
Send invites early
Once you’ve chosen a date, aim to send digital or printed invitations at least 4 weeks ahead. This helps guests RSVP in time and prepare for the celebration.
Need beautiful, easy-to-customize invites? Browse Bloomo Kids’ printable baby shower invitation sets — designed to match your theme and timeline perfectly.
Final Thoughts
At the end of the day, there’s no such thing as a “perfect” time — only what feels right for you and your growing family. Whether you choose to celebrate early in your second trimester, right in that third-trimester sweet spot, or even later with a cozy sprinkle, the most important thing is that you feel supported and loved.
Remember, baby showers are about connection, not perfection. It’s okay if plans shift, guests RSVP late, or things don’t go exactly as expected. What truly matters is the joy of gathering (in-person or online) to honor this beautiful moment in your life.
